FAQs
I am having trouble finding a church that welcomes my family because of my child’s disability. Can you help?
Yes. We network with disability ministries and churches across the country. If we don’t know of a church, one of our partners likely does. We can also help you think through how to present your family’s need to a church before you visit, and as you begin to settle in.
We need a specific piece of equipment to help my loved one, but it’s expensive. Do you have any ideas?
We have access to several equipment lending closets in central Florida. If you live regionally, contact us to see if we may help you find what you need. We are always happy to brainstorm with you on ways to fund your need.
My loved one was just diagnosed. What do I do now?
First, take a breath. While this may be a surprise to you, it is not to God. He created your loved one in His image and put you together as family. Your loved one is much more than a diagnosis or label.
Next, we suggest you talk with some people who live with a similar disability and explore options. A good place to find these people is to search for the name of the diagnosis, such as cerebral palsy, spina bifida, dementia, Down syndrome, etc. An organization specific to the diagnosis will offer a wealth of information to get you started. As always, we’d be glad to help you search, and/or pray with you if you’d like. Just let us know.
I noticed someone who lives down the street, or who attends my church has a disability. But I don’t know them. How could I reach out to them?
The best first step is always to treat the person the same way you would any other person of that age range. For example, if it is an adult, introduce yourself as you do to other adults, look them in the eyes and smile. If a child, look for an opportunity when a parent is nearby to introduce yourself to the child and parent.
You can ask the child about their favorite game, or toy or school activity, etc. and also engage with the parent.
Once you’ve met, build a friendship. Invite them to your house for coffee, or take some cookies to them, etc. If you see them outside raking leaves or shoveling snow, offer to help.
Asking about their disability should not be one of the first things you talk about. But it’s okay to let them know you’re not familiar with disabilities and would like to be their friend. Ask how you might best assist. It is always better to ask if help is needed, and if so, how to help than to act on what your assumptions.
Don’t get hung up on language or how to communicate. Remember that most people will notice your heart's attitude louder than your words.
And one more thing, just because someone does not speak, or speak clearly, does not mean they have nothing to say.